Sunday, November 23, 2008

George Anthony


I have read some nasty things on the net about George thats is so wrong yet also judgemently,why we as humans who don't even know this man have to bash him let alone accuse him of things ?We as humans should stop and look at our seleves before rushing to judgment,me, I think George is stronger then most and is completly misjudged.
George,who was a police officer and detective wanted to use his ability to find caylee he wanted to question casey on where his granddaughter was yet he was told by cindy"your not a police officer anymore, calm down",to me thats wrong, once your a cop,there is no calming down,you have that instinct forever, it's just the way it is.
On June 24th,George hadn't seen caylee,casey had been at the house for a few mins' he mentioned the gas cans were missing,he told casey he needed to get something out of the trunk to fix the family car, he had an extra set of keys, casey tried holding him back and said"no dad, i'll get it"George told her he was able to get it,she put her hands out to stop him and cursed at him.George being George knew that smell,he dosen't want to believe it but heck once you smell the odor you know that smell forever,he stated to the police what he thought it was and the imaginable has happened.
His heart is aching,he wants to believe caylee is still on this earth and hold onto hope,I strongly believe in HOPE and holding onto it for as long as possible.People have called him a "liar"there is reasons for things that have been said or done because someone else is running the show and when your stuck in a rock and a hard place you tend to follow along,no matter what you feel in your heart.
George told FBI"casey stole from caylee's piggy bank to stealing from her own family ,barrowing money she couldn't pay back ",This had to be hard for him to paint the picture of his daughter whom he loves but still in his heart he can't understand how he raised a daughter to do whats she's done so far but she {casey} is innoucent until proven guilty.
I think george has been shuffled in all this mess,I think nobody has taken an ounce of compassion for his feelings thus far.It was hard for him to take a stand and tell a jury what he knew which placed casey behind bars but don't place blame on him, place where it should be, he told the truth,he even expressed how hard it was to do that,go against your daughter that way.
All George wants is to find Caylee,wheather it be alive or other wise and not one person has stopped to consider his feelings , no support for him.people tend to hide their feelings,they hold back tears,they try and go on,for whatever reason we as human beings do the same thing.I remember when my grandmother passed away,I couldn't cry,it wasn't that I didn't love her,I did but she was sick, she was in a nursing home ,she had strokes, it was her time to go.I sat alone in my room, talked to God and cried alittle.My grandmother will always be with me in my memories, my heart and around me.
George has been played out by all accounts of what I read online no less and someone who's smart, how do you know that?So he made a mistake, we all have,so he wants to find caylee,can I convict him, no because I'd be holding onto HOPE just like him, hoping for the better ,not the worst.
Can I blame him for getting mad at protesters,no because I think it was out of hand and outta line, who are they to be trial and jury,are they any better then joe shmo down the street,I doubt not.I can't blame him for wanting them off his property and away from his home, night after night,day after day people wanting casey to come out so they could chew her up and spit her out,that was enough to drive anyone nuts.
yes George told FBI he was told about bad pictures and he thought he knew his daughter well,he also was beside himself with tears welling up ,I could tell when he spoke of the days caylee was missing.I feel for this man,I can't understand why people have bashed him when he was told by one person to calm down and he has been forced somehow to back up casey ,can I blame him, no, some fathers would do that and keep their feelings to themselves,thats just how it is.
I just think george needs better encouragment and support then what he has been getting,it's not fair to him as a human being.
This is for george
I can not blame greorge for defending casey because to be honest shes been getting the brunt of alot as well,I can not bash her because I am not that person,In America we have the right to be innoucent before proven guilty,it's up to the jury,not me to make casey out to be a bad person.This blog will not bash casey or the Anthony family.

Caylee"S Hope,why I started this

Caylee Marie Anthony,has been missing since June 16th,the last time her family saw this beautiful angel.
I am not here to bash the Anthony's nor casey because thats not my style ,I am here because I feel I need a place to write and share my feelings.

As we know one month went by before caylee was reported missing,cindy{caylee's grandmother}made the heartwrenching phone call.I ask myself "why didn't casey call to begin with"?I am just so baffled by this.Here is a child missing and her mother didn't call the police,I was lost in this whole matter.

Everyday that has gone by has been a nightmare for the Anthony's,everyone ask's"where is Caylee" and still no answears.Casey has said"she dropped her off to the nanny or met the nanny in the park and she took Caylee from her",we now know that was a lie,there was no nanny zanny watching caylee,My opinon is this"casey placed nanny on a resume and thats where she got zanny-nanny from"because according to george{Caylees gradfather caylee never mentioned a nanny named zanny,ever}.

As a human being,I have decided not to judge casey till I know all the facts and still not judge because I have known people who were liars,who had problems,who had kids way to young and it as they said"cramped their life style" and couldn't do the things they did before.

Example-My sister had a friend who had a baby girl at 17,then a son,she lost her kids through divorce but she had another child when she was 20 with another person, now granted she had her hands full,but this girl was a dumbbell when it came to watching her kids or caring for them,she'd expect "mommy" to come and care for them or change them so she could sit around, sleep all day or party,she even relied on her friends as well.There was a number of times I'd go and comb her daughters hair, my sister would baby sit her or bath her and get her ready for bed because her friend was to lazy to do her job,care for her daughter,then she'd start dumping her kids on her mother so she'd could go and party,to me as a person I found this sick,I can see once in awhile but not every weekend and she was doing bad things too.She stole from me and my sister,she'd barrow cash and never pay it back and lied like a rug.

So ,you wonder how can casey do the things she did,we don't know,we as humans want the whys and how comes and it really dosen't concern us,we're not in the Anthony's shoes but My feeling is caylee is out there somewhere and I pray to God everyday she is found,even if the outcome isn't what anyone wants.

Caylee"s Hope ,the words mean alot, hope she is still alive, hope she is found,hope that this should never happen to another child,hope her mother speaks and tells the truth,hope there can be healing soon,hope for love and caring,hope for Caylee,thats what it means to me.